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2 minutes ago, Joe Ferguson forever said:

awww...that anger will get you far in the corporate world.  I've heard many biz execs use those descriptors while they search for valuable employees.  you can either adjapt or lose.

 

 

 

I'm almost 50 and self-employed...

 

Funny how people like you project your own insecurities and judgments onto others with zero evidence...

 

All I have to do is post videos and your imagination goes straight to the dark side...

 

A sign of ideological weakness...

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22 minutes ago, SCBills said:


If it makes you feel better, given the lefts obsession with calling anything men say “incel based”… I’ve had plenty of numb, empty sex in my life. 
 

I get the feeling many of you aren’t in your 20’s and 30’s when you take issue with how young men frame the current culture. 
 

It’s not incel commentary to acknowledge the emptiness and bleakness of the modern world in terms of relationships between the sexes. 
 

You just have to hope you stumble across someone worth investing in and that, in that moment of time, both of you have buried trauma, exes, and commitment fear down far enough to actually try with each other. 

If you wonder why young men have no drive to compete in a economic environment that disadvantages them on top of it… it’s because their base nature to provide for a woman and family they love has been drained and replaced with a hollow realization that they won’t have what their grandparents had. 
 

i dunno man.  i just can't agree with the bolded.  if a young man doesn't have the drive to be successful because it may be harder and take longer for them to achieve than what their grandparents had...they're already dead in the water an full of excuses.  i have a large volume of young people who come through my office, and you can easily tell who will be ok and who won't.  i see kids getting out of college, getting jobs, having good relationship as so on.   

 

it's amazing to my how much certain people let social media and politics seep into their personal lives and completely distort what could be their reality.  

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25 minutes ago, Joe Ferguson forever said:

yes, you wouldn't want these disillusioned losers to hear other ideas...keep the cult solidified.

where's that tiny violin?  absolute bs.  If you're from middle/upper middle class families, you likely had better educational opportunities than most.


What does that matter when colleges need to hit quotas and less qualified, less educated applicants get in over you?

 

What does that matter when companies have had promotion caps on white men for the past 5-7 years as they promote less qualified candidates of color to positions staffed by HR departments run by progressive women?

 

The pendulum is swinging, but if you’re a white man, your color has been a detriment to you in recent years, yet those like you want to pretend it’s privilege.  Outdated bs. 

7 minutes ago, teef said:

i dunno man.  i just can't agree with the bolded.  if a young man doesn't have the drive to be successful because it may be harder and take longer for them to achieve than what their grandparents had...they're already dead in the water an full of excuses.  i have a large volume of young people who come through my office, and you can easily tell who will be ok and who won't.  i see kids getting out of college, getting jobs, having good relationship as so on.   

 

it's amazing to my how much certain people let social media and politics seep into their personal lives and completely distort what could be their reality.  


There are obviously young folks this doesn’t apply to, but what I’m saying has basis in polling and statistics, whereas you’ve given anecdotal evidence. 
 

But I do agree that your mentality ultimately shapes your future and what I’m saying is that young men are dying inside and letting rejection and disappointment shape them.  

 

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9 minutes ago, SCBills said:

 


There are obviously young folks this doesn’t apply to, but what I’m saying has basis in polling and statistics, whereas you’ve given anecdotal evidence. 

maybe when it comes to dating apps, but those stats mean nothing to me when it comes to work and success.  the "i have it harder so i'm not going to try" is an incredible cop out.

 

concerning dating, people have to be far more reliant on apps.  i get it's the easiest way to go, but it has completely warped expectations and what a relationship.  they've told women that if a man isn't 6 foot or make 100k he's not worthy, like it's taught men that female success equals feminism.  theses are just two examples, but if something doesn't work, it's time to try something new out.  

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18 minutes ago, SCBills said:


What does that matter when colleges need to hit quotas and less qualified, less educated applicants get in over you?

 

What does that matter when companies have had promotion caps on white men for the past 5-7 years as they promote less qualified candidates of color to positions staffed by HR departments run by progressive women?

 

The pendulum is swinging, but if you’re a white man, your color has been a detriment to you in recent years, yet those like you want to pretend it’s privilege.  Outdated bs. 


There are obviously young folks this doesn’t apply to, but what I’m saying has basis in polling and statistics, whereas you’ve given anecdotal evidence. 
 

But I do agree that your mentality ultimately shapes your future and what I’m saying is that young men are dying inside and letting rejection and disappointment shape them.  

 

Our not too distant ancestors lived through the depression and a couple world wars. And they’re widely known as the greatest generation 

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36 minutes ago, teef said:

i dunno man.  i just can't agree with the bolded.  if a young man doesn't have the drive to be successful because it may be harder and take longer for them to achieve than what their grandparents had...they're already dead in the water an full of excuses.  i have a large volume of young people who come through my office, and you can easily tell who will be ok and who won't.  i see kids getting out of college, getting jobs, having good relationship as so on.   

 

it's amazing to my how much certain people let social media and politics seep into their personal lives and completely distort what could be their reality.  


Since when do you venture into this place?

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14 minutes ago, Joe Ferguson forever said:

Our not too distant ancestors lived through the depression and a couple world wars. And they’re widely known as the greatest generation 


Our not too distant ancestors fought a world war for a country they loved, and they thought loved them back.  There was pride in that.  
 

They had women they cherished and wanted to protect/make proud.  
 

They could buy a home, raise a family and have stake in the country. 
 

Please tell me you are not comparing that era to our current one. 
 

Just admit you are too far removed to comment on the topic at hand.   Everything you respond with is a talking point from a bygone era. 
 

 

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2 minutes ago, Roundybout said:


Since when do you venture into this place?

oh i'm reading in here all the time.  i enjoy political talk to an extent, but this place is way too savage for me.  as much as i like the convo, politics plays such a tiny role in my life....and i think i'm much happier for it.  

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25 minutes ago, SCBills said:


Our not too distant ancestors fought a world war for a country they loved, and they thought loved them back.  There was pride in that.  
 

They had women they cherished and wanted to protect/make proud.  
 

They could buy a home, raise a family and have stake in the country. 
 

Please tell me you are not comparing that era to our current one. 
 

Just admit you are too far removed to comment on the topic at hand.   Everything you respond with is a talking point from a bygone era. 
 

 

You think your plight is worse than waiting in bread lines or working as a day laborer in order to eat?  And guess what got us out of the depression. Throughout my career I’ve cared for folks from several generation. WW2 vets were the toughest yet the easiest to care for. The most recent generations are the softest and most difficult to care for. 

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48 minutes ago, Joe Ferguson forever said:

You think your plight is worse than waiting in bread lines or working as a day laborer in order to eat?  And guess what got us out of the depression. Throughout my career I’ve cared for folks from several generation. WW2 vets were the toughest yet the easiest to care for. The most recent generations are the softest and most difficult to care for. 


Ok, and?  We’re not talking about that. 
 

We’re talking about reality and why young men are withdrawing from society and/or becoming completely red-pilled. 
 

You want to downplay their struggles.  Ok fine.. but while there are incredibly difficult things previous generations have gone through, you’ll never understand the modern technological age of isolation. 
 

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38 minutes ago, SCBills said:


Ok, and?  We’re not talking about that. 
 

We’re talking about reality and why young men are withdrawing from society and/or becoming completely red-pilled. 
 

You want to downplay their struggles.  Ok fine.. but while there are incredibly difficult things previous generations have gone through, you’ll never understand the modern technological age of isolation. 
 

I'm not saying things are great for young people.  Economic prospects are clearly worse than 20 or even 10 years ago.  The climate could be almost unlivable for many in a couple decades.  There is a sense of despair and hopelessness which you've personally conveyed.  Yet some are doing well.

 

Go to a dance studio, take some lessons and dance with confident, athletic, musical young women or beginners like you..  there are are mixers/parties where there are almost always more women than men and they rarely say no when asked to dance, especially if you have a little skill.  I would suggest salsa or swing.  Then you're ready for bars with bands, even cruise ships and more formal events.  I've posted this before but it warrants repeating.  You'll thank me later.

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38 minutes ago, Joe Ferguson forever said:

I'm not saying things are great for young people.  Economic prospects are clearly worse than 20 or even 10 years ago.  The climate could be almost unlivable for many in a couple decades.  There is a sense of despair and hopelessness which you've personally conveyed.  Yet some are doing well.

 

Go to a dance studio, take some lessons and dance with confident, athletic, musical young women or beginners like you..  there are are mixers/parties where there are almost always more women than men and they rarely say no when asked to dance, especially if you have a little skill.  I would suggest salsa or swing.  Then you're ready for bars with bands, even cruise ships and more formal events.  I've posted this before but it warrants repeating.  You'll thank me later.


Im fine. I don’t have an issue with the other sex and own a business.  
 

There’s a lot of truth to the viewpoint espoused of pick yourself up by your boot straps and make something of yourself.   Go to the gym and stop feeling sorry for yourself.  
 

I’m simply speaking for a lost generation of men who have blinking red alarms going off and most on the left want to minimize their struggles.  

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