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  1. On 3/22/2025 at 5:02 PM, Bag of Milk said:

    I wasn't sure if I wanted to add to this thread, but since it's still going on, I think I will.

    First, despite a few bro's with their typical mouth breathing comments  I appreciate the compassion and empathy of many who have posted.

    In the 1980's my first job out of college was working in a residential treatment center for youth, before I ended up going into teaching and school administration.

    One of the boys in the facility was 12, great kid to work with, but was extremely guarded. He had an issue with soiling his underwear constantly and thus had to be monitored by male and female because it was so prevalent. Can you imagine at that age how shameful and embarrassing this would be? The kids lived in cottages so all the other boys ended up knowing this was happening. He handled it, like it wasn't really happening to him.

    Of course soiling can be be a sign of sexual abuse, but despite efforts by social workers and counselors on staff, while he was in placement he never so much as opened the door even ever so slightly that any abuse had happened. Well that was the 1980's, he left to return home to the Southern Tier in a small town after a few years. The facility didn't keep in contact with the kids once they left, so their was no update on his progress 

    Well, a few years ago I got a friend request on Facebook from him and he casually updated me on his life. It was good to hear from him and I was pleased that he said he was happily married, has 2 kids and was working a decent job.

    The messages took a turn when he broke away from his family, was distraught and was aimlessly heading out West in his truck.

    He ended up sharing what had happened to him when he was a boy at the hands of one of his mother's boyfriends. He shared this by message as I think it was easier for him.

    He was raped repeatedly for many years by this monster. He was bound, tortured cruelly and humiliated. 

    He had buried this trauma for so many years, like so many do and releasing it let loose with a volcano of emotions that caused him to run from the decent life he was built, because he felt so ashamed, like he was damaged goods. He didn't know whether he wanted to live or die.

    One thing he shared is that his mother's boyfriend often would force him to give him oral sex and would ***** in his mouth. This often caused him to gag. The man would tell him to go clean up and brush his teeth some of the time. He did.

    Unfortunately, this association  between the forced oral sex and brushing his teeth gave him a gag reflex. Thus, this boy and eventually man would gag every morning when he brushed his teeth and of course the memories would end up coming to him of the cruelty he experienced. This has been going on every morning for over 30 years 

    What is the price of the humiliation this boy faced? Would he be considered a gold digger if he brought a lawsuit against this man?

    The shame and absolute hatred for himself has kept him from seeking justice and holding this man accountable.

    Well, after communicating with me over a few months as he broke from his world, he ended up blocking me on Facebook. I think sharing was overwhelming for him.

    I have no idea what has become of him. 

    I wish we could have been able to break through and help him when he was a boy, it's heartbreaking when many wanted to help, but his mind and body buried the trauma and pain just so he could try to survive in this world.

    It's been around 35 years since he was raped and sexually tortured, if he is able and wants to seek some form of justice, is he justified.

    I hope he finds peace in whatever route he chooses.

     

     

     

     

    What a sad, horrific story. Sadly, I have seen people who had similar experiences. I hope that somehow the person that you speak of will be OK.

  2. Every morning there's a halo hangin' from the corner
    Of my girlfriend's four-post bed
    I know it's not mine but I'll see if I can use it
    For the weekend or a one-night stand

     

    Couldn't understand
    How to work it out
    Once again as predicted, left my broken heart open
    And you ripped it out

  3. 8 hours ago, TheyCallMeAndy said:

    I think it's a blend of both. Drafting a OT, TE, or Center at 30 isn't going to help us any time soon. Safety is in that argument as well. 

    The above is really not a given. We all know every team has multiple injuries every season. If the Bills see an OT that they have a really high rating on it wouldn't be a mistake to draft him imo. Dion Dawkins is playing very well, but he will be 31 in April. This isn't old but again, injuries do occur and imo; the most important things that the Bills can do are to protect Josh Allen and provide him with weapons. Using our best draft picks on the secondary is Jauron style "playing not to lose."

    Of course, this is jmo.

     

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  4. On 3/21/2025 at 8:29 PM, H2o said:

    These are our visits/meetings so far:

     

    Zy Alexander, Cornerback, LSU (COM)

     

    Trey Amos, Cornerback, Ole Miss (COM)

     

    Jahdae Barron, Cornerback, Texas (COM)

     

    Andre Biggers, Defensive Tackle, Georgia Tech (PRO)

     

    Isaiah Bond, Wide Receiver, Texas (COM)

     

    Vernon Broughton, Defensive Tackle, Texas (COM)

     

    Denzel Burke, Cornerback, Ohio State (COM)

     

    Jamaree Caldwell, Defensive Tackle, Oregon (COM)

     

    Mello Dotson, Cornerback, Kansas (COM)

     

    Nick Emmanwori, Safety, South Carolina (COM)

     

    Trevor Etienne, Running Back, Georgia (COM)

     

    Joshua Farmer, Defensive Tackle, Florida State (COM, PRO)

     

    Matthew Golden, Wide Receiver, Texas (COM)

     

    Kenneth Grant, Defensive Tackle, Michigan (COM)

     

    Mike Green, Defensive End, Marshall (COM)

     

    Landon Jackson^, Defensive End, Arkansas (COM, PRO)

     

    Will Johnson, Cornerback, Michigan (COM)

     

    Andrew Mukuba, Safety, Texas (COM)

     

    Walter Nolen, Defensive Tackle, Ole Miss (COM)

     

    CJ Ogbonna, Quarterback, Buffalo (PRO)

     

    Xavier Restrepo, Wide Receiver, Miami (COM)

     

    Arian Smith, Wide Receiver, Georgia (COM)

     

    Malaki Starks, Safety, Georgia (COM)

     

    Josaiah Stewart, Outside Linebacker, Michigan (COM)

     

    Xavier Watts, Safety, Notre Dame (COM)

     

    Savion Williams, Wide Receiver, TCU (COM)

     

    Not enough defensive backs on that list. They need to pick up the pace.

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  5. 2 hours ago, GunnerBill said:

     

    Beane drafts his biggest need with his first pick. Always. His biggest need is a corner.

    True. I'm sure that better receivers are a "secondary" need.

    8 hours ago, Stenbar said:

    He did that with Elam, I'm not so sure he would take a chance with a 1st rd pick on a if come maybe CB again. I despise drafting CB's in the first rd. Very few make a huge impact, let alone stay more than one contract. Just aint worth it. 

    Off the charts, EXCELLENT post!!!

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  6. On 3/20/2025 at 11:13 AM, julian said:

    I know todays NFL salaries are incredibly insane, but Wiley still has a net worth North of 5M, that’s more than 99% of the population and still plenty enough of pot to piss in for a wrongdoer to take advantage of.

     

     That being said, who the fawk knows these days. Hopefully the truth prevails, Shannon Sharp just a couple days ago stated he won’t even get into an elevator alone with a women lol.

     

     Probably good advice for men who have resources and notoriety.

    For the sake of this post, I am going to assume that his two accusers might be Columbia graduates. If so, the possibility exists that they might be worth more than 5 million dollars each. A college degree was much more of a ticket to success 30 years ago than it is today. An Ivy League degree was gold.

     

    I don't know the facts of the case and refuse to speculate innocence or guilt. What I will say is that some great athletes are accustomed to getting their way. It has now come full circle with college players being given Lamborghinis to play on a football team, but; this mentality didn't just start. 

     

    I don't know if Wiley is guilty. None of us do but I refuse to cast and aspersions on these women for coming forward. I hope that the truth prevails.

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  7. Keep your eyes on the sky
    Put a dollar in the kitty
    Don't the moon look pretty

     

    Tonight when I chase the dragon
    The water may change to cherry wine
    And the silver will turn to gold
    Time out of mind

  8. Daddy made whiskey and he made it well.
    Cost two dollars and it burned like hell.
    I cut hickory just to fire the still,
    Drink down a bottle and be ready to kill.

     

    Brown-eyed women and red grenadine,
    The bottle was dusty but the liquor was clean.
    Sound of the thunder with the rain pouring down,
    And it looks like the old man's getting on.

  9. 6 hours ago, BADOLBILZ said:

      Back then, receivers were hit at the line but then could not be grabbed, ridden around and water-skied all over the field like they are today without drawing a flag.   Defense's instead dealt with them by gratuitous violence as the ball arrived and after the catch.    

    This is SO true. I suspect that many young fans don't realize that defensive backs were the most violent defenders. After them I would say linebackers were next and the least dangerous defenders would be the linemen. 

     

    The Oakland Raiders secondary consisted of blood thirsty, dangerous men. I remenber seeing receivers over the middle getting speared in the back, often on incomplete, overthrown passes. Receivers over the middle would leap for a ball and get wiped out. Many dbs bordered on criminal behavior imo. Today it does appear to be pass interference on a huge portion of plays. 

     

    Looking back, it is clear that the violence was excessive and players did pay the price with serious health issues. It really had to change. That said, why do you think that they now allow so much contact in the secondary?

  10. Why follow me to higher ground?
    Lost as you swear I am
    Don't throw away your basic needs
    Ambiance and vanity

     

    Don't scream about, don't think aloud
    Turn your head now baby just spit me out
    Don't worry about, don't speak of doubt
    Turn your head now baby just spit me out

  11. Just now, YoloinOhio said:

    What if said DB drafted is from bama … does it soften the blow slightly 

     

    any wrestlers at bama we should have our eye on btw 

    Despite being criticized last  year for "thinking that I am a scout" lol, i do plan to do my usual post on Alabama draft eligible players. 

     

    Sneak Preview: Safety Malachi Moore is a VERY good player. If he was more durable I would classify him as great. The good news is that he hits like a linebacker. The bad news is that he hits like a linebacker and isn't really big or durable enough to do so.  This kid is great in coverage and the run and he is very smart. If he goes in round two or three and stays healthy, he will be a star and make a team very happy.

     

    Just my non-scout opinion.

  12. 9 minutes ago, Kirby Jackson said:

    … and @Bill from NYC will lose his mind

    Sadly you are not wrong, although I am better than I used to be because I am used to it. In 2022 I was in Vegas for the draft (by mistake mind you). I made the reservations way in advance. We were in a lounge at New York, New York waiting for a table at Gallaghers and watching the draft. I told my wife they would draft a corner, but I didn't even think that they would trade up for one. She said, "I'm so sorry Honey." I was not about to lose it in front of her, and it was the best steak of my entire life. :) 

     

    Now, no move that McDermott makes will surprise me. I give him a 90% chance of drafting a first round corner. If not, probably a safety. :(

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  13. It is easy to blame the Elam trade up and selection on Beane, but who was a defensive coach for many years, McDermott or Beane? Who knows the complexities of playing cornerback, McDermott  or Beane?

     

    I am far less critical of McDermott as a coach than I once was. I do not blame him for having lost the Taylor Swift playoff game. It was stolen imo. That said, this was not his first round one cornerback fiasco. He passed on Mahomes to draft a corner 17 picks later (and was undercompensated for doing so). In 2022 he not only passed on several very good players, he actually traded UP to do so and draft Elam.

     

    It is seemingly easier to blame Beame for these debacles, but McDermott is clearly at fault imo. He is a better coach than I originally thought but he has far too much power in the organization and should stick primarily to coaching, not team building, which he seems to be unsuited for.

     

    Jmo.

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  14. 37 minutes ago, Einstein said:

    2022 NFL Draft:

    Pick 21: 1st Team All-Pro CB Trent McDuffie
    Pick 22: Respectable LB - Quay Walker
    Pick 23: Kaiir Elam
    Pick 24: 2nd Team All-Pro OT Tyler Smith
    Pick 25: Two-time Pro-Bowl C Tyler Lindenbaum

    It takes skill to screw this up so badly.

    George Karlaftis was also there, but who needs Pro Bowl blockers and fine pass rushers when you have a chance to trade UP for a corner?

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Karlaftis

  15. On 3/11/2025 at 9:53 AM, Sweats said:

    That was definitely the strangest time in history that i ever lived through........to this day, i still can't make any sense of it.

    I fully agree. I would expand on it but it would get political and I don't want to piss off @Simon, and I swore off the Politics Board some time ago. :) 

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  16. 34 minutes ago, LABILLBACKER said:

    Or Bosa has 5 sacks and it becomes a dribbler back to the mound for Beane. You know a fa acquisition is bad when you hear dozens of comments like "when healthy" or "it's only a 1 yr deal".

    I'm not so sure. Times have really changed. That deal is now considered cheap. Decades ago, when we signed the great Bryce Paup, iirc he got 3 years for 7.5 million. That was considered good money in those days. 

     

    This contract could  turn out to be a bargain of sorts. Let's hope! :) 

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  17. If it seems your friends desert you
    There's somebody thinking of you
    I'm the one who'll never hurt you
    Maybe that's because I love you

    Call me, don't be afraid, you can call me
    Maybe it's late, but you call me
    Tell me, and I'll be around

  18. Not enough emphasis on defense. We should draft defensive backs with the first four picks at the very least, and trading away picks to our rivals should not be ruled out, as long as we can get secondary help. Trading up for dbs would be a great option.

     

    Also, why waste a 6th round pick on a receiver? There is zero reason to make life easier for Josh Allen. 

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  19. Crazy cat peekin' through a lace bandanna
    Like a one-eyed cheshire, like a diamond-eye jack
    A leaf of all colors plays a golden-string fiddle
    To a double-e waterfall over my back

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