I chose a 3. If it was soley based upon my family it would have been a 6. It's amazing how much your life changes when you are doing things for others not just yourself. My wife really rescued me from the doldrums of alchohol. I used to drink, ALOT. I did reprehensible things to family, friends and strangers. Most of the 90's are forgotten. I'm not sure if I ever remembered them. If not for my wife I most certainly would have ended up in jail or dead. I had serious anger management issues but the woman of my dreams led me to follow a happier, more fufilling life.
Career wise, I managed to hang onto a decent job. Upon settling down with my wife, I was promoted at work to where I am now. It's not the best job in the world (as I am working this very minute), but I doubled my salalry since joining the company and have decent benefits.
Ultimately, I would like own my own business (with my wife) and not have to bow to the man. I could lose 10 or 20 pounds and would like a new car (we have one nice one but the other, not so much). We had an immense amount of credit debt to clear up and are about half way through it. Hopefully sometime next year after said debt is gone we can get a house.
So that is how I got to a 3.