You are acting like a white knight when it is not needed. Both sides of this are over reacting. So far we have 0 proof of anything, so speculation and theories about the victim are not Victim Blaming, they are speculations and theories. Assuming McCoy has anything to do with this is the same thing, because there is 0 evidence.
Again everything is speculation and theory at this point. All we have is a potential crime, a beaten women, a friends Instagram post, a guess by a scorned ex, a statement from McCoy that says it is a baseless accusation.