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    2 hours ago, SCBills said:

    What is 80/20?

     

    That 80% of women are competing for the same 20% of men?

     

    In the dating app world, it’s unequivocally true.

     

    If you’re attractive, are or pretend to be successful (because how would they know) and are over 6’, you’ll have success. 
     

    What ends up happening is those men entertain women that they normally wouldn’t as hook ups.  With no intention to pursue them beyond sex.

     

    Those women, who should be talking to men on their level, end up in months/years long situationships with men above their level.  They then have higher standards than they should have and end up bitter/angry at men because of wasting years of their life on unfulfilling relationships where they’re strung along. 
     

    This is all on a very superficial level, and there are outliers, but it’s very much a “thing”. 
     

    For 20% men, it’s relatively easy to, at least, get laid.   To avoid painting a too rosy picture for those of us who fall into that category.. the top 10% of women  get attention from celebs, athletes, high net worth guys who date in a world most of us will never know.  I dated a Falcons cheerleaders for a while.. the dudes shooting their shot her DM’s were wild.  Practice Squad, fringe roster guys, basketball players, influencers and high level execs. 
     

    Moral of the story for men.. try to marry before college ends, because if not.. you’re best bet is to fall in that 20% by random chance on the height piece, move to a city, and have fun with hookup culture until it drains the life out of your soul.  At worst, you’re in the 80% and enter a dating world skewed against you superficially and encounter a world where women are fine being alone and you’re going to struggle if you have to turn to bumble, tinder, hinge etc. 

     

    So in regards to “incels”.. imagine being a guy who struggles to ever even meet a woman in the modern dating world, and once you do, she already has a “men ain’t ish” mentality after getting used by men she now compares you to physically that she was never meant to be entertaining anyway in prior generations. 
     

    End result.  Lonely angry men.  Lonely bitter women. 
     

    I actually saw a video about this recently, (before i watched adolescence) about this exact matter.  What made it more powerful was that number were added.  By numbers I mean they showed the number of men and women in dating age.  Once you start placing specifics on a partner, (size, looks, money) those numbers shrink wildly.  Even the 6 foot thing...if you eliminate the men under 6", the pool of available men is more than cut in half on so on.   On top of that, very few women are willing to bend on these criteria, adding to the nonsense.  I'm guessing those apps have just shaped the dating world for the negative.  

     

    Have you ever seen the videos on X?  I have to imagine a lot are staged, but they'll interview young girls after being out.  When asked what they want out of a man, I'm sure you can guess the criteria.  The problem is the men who meet these criteria would never date the majority of these girls.  It's a case of setting themselves up for failure.  

     

    Hell...they were running surveys on what young people think a salary is to be considered successful.  The answer...600k.  It's a new, warped reality that going to slap some people in the face.  

    John Elway golf cart accident

    in The Stadium Wall

    Posted

    without getting to into the specifics, we have friends that live around a popular course.  this course does allow members to use their own carts, and many buy houses just to live near the course.  one night, two wives wanted to pick something up from a friends out on another part of the course.  they were hammered, it was dark, and drove right into one of the deeper ponds.  apparently one of the wives had a very difficult time getting out, and her stuff sank with the cart.  they honestly could have killed themselves, and now...no more non-course carts are allowed.  members were pissed and they were banned for a summer.

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    RIP flaz

    in The Stadium Wall

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    26 minutes ago, Jauronimo said:

     

    There are probably less than 5 people in human history who can say they took a black widow bite to the scrote. Rarified air. 

     

    RIP Dave.

    i probably would have made a t-shirt that let people know what happened to me.

    RIP flaz

    in The Stadium Wall

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    He always seemed like a very pleasant guy when interacting with him in the shoutbox.  the guy loved to fish, as he would let people know his plans as to when he was going out and what he was fishing for.   if i'm not mistaken, flaz had the story of having to go to a porta potty at night, (possibly because of the hurricanes) and being  bit in the balls by a black widow.  that's a solid guy tale to share with friends.

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    Easter Sucks

    in Off the Wall

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    i'm kinda in on this.  at least in our house it's become too much of a thing.  i love my wife, but she comes from a culture of gift giving.  her family wasn't wealthy, but for christmas those kids would be opening ***** for hours.

     

    so the last few easters, our kids have been getting more and more elaborate baskets.  they're not filled with candy, but toys, crafts, books, etc.  they're pretty elaborate.  after the kids went through them, my wife then asks, "now...do you want your gifts from us?"  That's when I had a bit of a moment.  She come out with two bags filled with legos and other random today.  not a ton, but why in the world do the kids need a packed basket, and gifts from us.  it's far too much, but her response is that the kids are young once, so here we are.

     

    then we did the 10 am brunch.  80 bucks a person.  even when we looked around, the majority of all the brunches were $70-90.   two places were $40, but they're places i get wings at, so i just wasn't feeling it.  then a few hours later it was off do another dinner i didn't even want.  it's just become too much nonsense for us, so i think i'm going to retool some things next year.

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    Drive-thru marijuana dispensary near Highmark?

    in Off the Wall

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    i do get where people are coming from with the smell as it's just so potent.  is it the end of the world? no...but people should use the same courtesy as the would when smoking cigs as mentioned.  i think part of that is how ny rolled it out.  if i'm not mistaken, the rule was that you could smoke pot in the same areas that you could smoke cigs.  that always struck me as odd, as it created way too much of a gray area.  

     

    enforcement would be impossible, so what can you do other than trying to be considerate of others.  that being said, i do smell it a lot less in public than when it first became legal.  i'm not sure if the freedom buzz wore off, but it's now rare for me.  i've been told by everyone that nyc is the exception along with denver.  the place stinks of weed.

    Drive-thru marijuana dispensary near Highmark?

    in Off the Wall

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    the dispensaries aren't the issue.  the more dispensaries aren't suddenly going to produce more smokers.  how many years has pot been legal and now we have 2 within a 15 minute drive from my house.  i'm willing to be i can get to 6-8 liquor stores in the same radius.  on top of that, the dispensaries are always clean and secure.  the one i go to on occasion doesn't even let you in the door without showing an id.

     

    on top of that, i have no idea why a drive through somehow makes it worse.  you can get weed in a number of ways.  you can have it delivered or pick it up yourself.  for pick up, you can preorder what you want, walk into the store and just walk out.  what's the difference of getting out of your car to get it vs just driving through.  

     

    it's just another service in our community at this point.  the more tax money coming in the better.

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    Five years ago today - the shut down started

    in Off the Wall

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    god i hated it.  i remember talking to a colleague's wife that weekend prior about how we may have to shut down.  maybe for a week or two...take a short break and go back into it.  that monday we started talking to the staff about how we may have reduced hours coming up, and we may have to split days.  The next day, (tuesday) we were all at home, no longer allowed to work.  i just build my office months before, and i was panicked.  

     

    i remember hearing that we could be closed until june, and thought that would be completely impossible.  we were out of work for 10 weeks after that.  i was stuck in the house with a 2 year old, a 5 year old, my wife, and no way to earn.  it was awful.  the profession still hasn't completely come back as there's still large staff shortages.

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