boyst Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 (edited) 1) tinder 2) bumble 3) I'll post pics if you post pics 4) I only go after educated women. This is the polite way of saying earners. Recent one was on the board of a hospital at 31 years old until she just moved. Edited July 27, 2017 by Boyst62 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eball Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Confidence is key. Trust me. Nothing turns a woman off more quickly than a guy who isn't sure of himself and comfortable in his own skin. And by the way, confident doesn't mean cocky. Chivalry also isn't dead. Pull out her chair, open the door, let her order first...you know, all of the gentlemanly stuff. I'm sure you'll do fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mead107 Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 You have to tell us - big breast or small. You can PM me that information so no one else has to know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teef Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 this is your time to be gross john. have some fun. your first date should end with the stink finger olympics. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rob's House Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 The worst thing you can do is be the nice harmless guy. Be assertive and decisive. As far as the money thing goes, tell her you'll bring home the turkey if she brings home the bacon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeGOATski Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Behind the fantasy you lay out is a sad lonely reality. That's why. It's not a fantasy at all, but I understand it scares some people. Why, I don't know. Especially for those who already have a family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aristocrat Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Don't marry the first girl you date. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeGOATski Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Don't marry the first girl you date. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Don't do it at all. He's already been married! Am I the only sane one here?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
plenzmd1 Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Don't do it at all. He's already been married! Am I the only sane one here?! I am with ya brother...but also with John. Each is own, no right way to be happy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aristocrat Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Don't marry the first girl you date. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Don't do it at all. He's already been married! Am I the only sane one here?! Oh I agree. My gf and I have a son and trying for the second. No talk of marriage. It's funny cause people ask here and there why we aren't and they have no response when i ask them if the rings guarantee they will be together forever? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloBud Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Hey - try it at 56!! Going through the same thing. All I can offer you is to relax, be yourself, and enjoy the company. Nothing more, nothing less. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boyst Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 I am with ya brother...but also with John. Each is own, no right way to be happy so youre the woman hes talking aboht? I mean with him... we must assume biblically Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Canadian Bills Fan Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Good for you John keep us posted! Wow a surgeon? GOOD FOR YOU! CBF Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Poojer Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 i stand by my oft stated opinion that you need to be comfortable being single before you can be successful in dating. I may go overboard with that opinion, but it works for me. If you are looking just for physical 'relationships' have at it all you want. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pine Barrens Mafia Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 i stand by my oft stated opinion that you need to be comfortable being single before you can be successful in dating. I may go overboard with that opinion, but it works for me. If you are looking just for physical 'relationships' have at it all you want. I waited two years after splitting, and i'm glad i did. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeF Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Just from your posts here...you are a good man and a great father. Don't be uptight or nervous. First dates are actually great because there's so much to talk about...her life, your life..family..interests...what you do for fun.....if you ending up laughing and smiling a lot its usually a good sign. BTW, get football out of the way early. If she happens to be a Pats fan...politely say-- "ma'am I am so sorry but I think my house is on fire..I will call you in a few weeks" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bad Things Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 On a side note... I also turned 48 a couple days ago (on the 24th). Happy belated birthday! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thebandit27 Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 You'll do fine John, so just relax. As for advice, you've gotten plenty of good stuff here. I'll toss in my 1 cent... In my experience, no one single thing endears a man to others as much as the ability to listen. I've learned that connecting with others--especially women--is a matter of asking questions that I sincerely want to know the answer to, and then actively listening. Most of all though, have fun. You're getting a brand new start and I hope you enjoy making the most of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
\GoBillsInDallas/ Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 http://nypost.com/2017/07/26/talking-and-singing-sex-robot-deemed-a-game-changer/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeviF Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Look at it this way - worst case scenario you get to have a meal with someone who wanted to have a meal with you and some pleasant conversation. That by itself is worth getting out of the house for, even if it doesn't go anywhere else. It's no big deal, so have fun and be sure to report back with pics. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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